Sex Negativity & Shame
Guest Speaker: rowan@rowanboswell.com
Rowan Boswell (they/them), is a sex and relationship coach & yoga teacher. Inspired by the transformative power of self-acceptance, Rowan helps people understand more deeply what it is they want from sex, love, and relationships. Rowan identifies as poly, kinky, gender non-binary, and pansexual (bisexual/queer). They enjoy gardening and connecting with the wisdom of nature. You can reach out to Rowan to learn more about their workshops and coaching sessions by emailing them at rowan@rowanboswell.com
Tips: Have a trigger plan to exit or to use after the group experience is over
Resources
Videos
The power of vulnerability Ted Talk https://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_the_power_of_vulnerability?language=en
The Power of Vulnerability Ted Talk https://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_the_power_of_vulnerability?language=en
Ted Talk: Arousal non-concordance- arousal and desire different parts of us. https://www.ted.com/talks/emily_nagoski_the_truth_about_unwanted_arousal#t-59895
The Mask You Live In Documentary- Explores how our culture's narrow definition of masculinity is harming our boys, men, and society at large and unveils what we can do about it. https://www.google.com/search?q=the+mask+you+live+in+full+movie&rlz=1C1GCEA_enUS919US919&oq=the+mask&aqs=chrome.1.69i57j35i39j46i433l2j0j46l2j0i433l3.3551j0j7&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8
Books:
Perv: The Sexual Deviant in All of Us. This book argues for the efficacy of science and logic over irrational morals when addressing sexual deviancy. https://www.amazon.com/Perv-Sexual-Deviant-All-Us/dp/0374230897
Existential Kink Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power; A Method for Getting What You Want by Getting Off on What You Don't by Carolyn Elliott https://www.amazon.com/Existential-Kink-Unmask-Embrace-getting-ebook/dp/B07XMG4BWN
The Heart of Dominance: A Guide to Practicing Consensual Dominance by Anton Fulmen https://www.amazon.com/Heart-Dominance-practicing-consensual-dominance-ebook/dp/B01F8C7L2Y
Enough To Make You Blush - Exploring Erotic Humiliation by Princess Kali. Free PDF version attached here. http://wonder-woman.info/ds/Enough%20To%20Make%20You%20Blush%20-%20Princess%20Kali.pdf
Great Resources for Men
Charlie Glickman- is a good resource for men. a sexuality educator, workshop teacher, and writer. I also teach workshops, seminars, and university courses on sexuality topics.
The ManKind Project- is a great resource for men.”The ManKind Project empowers men to missions of service, supporting men to make a difference in the lives of others – men, women, and children around the world.” https://mankindproject.org/
Important quotes- “Fear is false evidence appearing real.”